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Be careful what you wish for… about setting goals and have success

Today I flew Class to Hong Kong. For some people that is not  a big deal, but for me it is! A few years ago I set myself a goal of flying class before the age of 40, but had no idea that this was really achievable.

Now – you have to remember that I am Dutch, so by default I am very sceptical about spending money on ‘frivolous things’. I can’t help it… it’s in my genes!! So when I set this goal for myself it was very ‘out there’…. not something that would be easy to achieve, and most people who know me well would argue that it was a ridiculous goal to set as I would NEVER achieve it! But today, about 14 months later and 1 week before my 39th birthday here I am… sitting in Business Class flying to Hong Kong.

So what happened? Well – a couple of things really…

  • I verbalised the goal and talked about it to other people
  • I figured out the type of activities I needed to do to achieve the goal.
  • I stuck with it and chipped away at it… one frequent flyer point at the time… !  
  • I set myself the goal but that was not enough! I needed to put it into an action plan.

About 14 months ago I would only dream of flying Business Class and hope that it would happen someday. But like my mentor always says: “Hope is NOT a strategy”

So I signed up for a frequent flyer program  and started collecting points towards upgrades etc. And now I have my first upgrade.. I achieved my goal! One year and one week ahead of schedule!!! So, what can we take away from this? Well, apart from signing up for a frequent flyer program… it is very important to write our goals down.  What is it that we want to achieve? Just talking about it isn’t enough.. WRITE IT DOWN! For some weird reason that is a lot more powerful. Write down your personal goals for the next 12 months… your business goals or your career goals…

Once you’ve written them down you can start talking about it with other people to shape the way you want to achieve your goal (notice that I no longer talk about a dream?!?! A dream doesn’t have an action plan…. goals do!) This stage is important as it will help you identify what you will need to do to make it happen.. what actions do you need to take? What activities and habits do you need to start? Now that you know what you need to do, the hard work is done.. all there is left is simply following your action plan! One day at a time.. .do the little baby steps.

One day you will get there.. believe me! It works for me…

But remember:  “BE CAREFULL WHAT YOU WISH FOR!” 

Today I flew Business Class to Hong Kong. For some people that is not  a big deal, but for me it is! A few years ago I set myself a goal of flying business class before the age of 40, but had no idea that this was really achievable. Now – you have to remember that I am Dutch, so by default I am very sceptical about spending money on ‘frivolous things’. I can’t help it… it’s in my genes!!
 So when I set this goal for myself it was very ‘out there’…. not something that would be easy to achieve, and most people who know me well would argue that it was a ridiculous goal to set as I would NEVER achieve it!
But today, about 14 months later and 1 week before my 39th birthday here I am… sitting in Business Class flying to Hong Kong.
So what happened? Well – a couple of things really…
I verbalised the goal and talked about it to other people
I figured out the type of activities I needed to do to achieve the goal.
I stuck with it and chipped away at it… one frequent flyer point at the time… !
 I set myself the goal but that was not enough! I needed to put it into an action plan. About 14 months ago I would only dream of flying Business Class and hope that it would happen someday. But like my mentor always says: “Hope is NOT a strategy”
So I signed up for a frequent flyer program  and started collecting points towards upgrades etc. And now I have my first upgrade.. I achieved my goal! One year and one week ahead of schedule!!!
So, what can we take away from this? Well, apart from signing up for a frequent flyer program… it is very important to write our goals down. What is it that we want to achieve? Just talking about it isn’t enough.. WRITE IT DOWN! For some weird reason that is a lot more powerful.
Write down your personal goals for the next 12 months… your business goals or your career goals…
Once you’ve written them down you can start talking about it with other people to shape the way you want to achieve your goal (notice that I no longer talk about a dream?!?! A dream doesn’t have an action plan…. goals do!)
This stage is important as it will help you identify what you will need to do to make it happen.. what actions do you need to take? What activities and habits do you need to start?
Now that you know what you need to do, the hard work is done.. now all there is left is simply following your action plan! One day at a time.. .do the little baby steps. One day you will get there.. believe me! It works for me…
But remember:
“ BE CAREFULL WHAT YOU WISH FOR! “

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